Showing posts with label babies. Show all posts
Showing posts with label babies. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 8, 2015

Advice to Working Pumping Moms

I've been pumping for 6 months now and feel it is time I pass on some advice on things I have learned while nursing and working full time to help other moms... this or to help me if I decide to do this thing all over again at some point. ;)

Tools of the Trade

I breastfed because I am cheap. Breast milk is free. That being said, I would recommend you invest in: a really good electric pump, a manual pump, spare parts, a pumping bra, bottles, milk storage bags, and bottle brush.

Nursing Bra - Simple D-lite
Pump - Hygeia Enjoye (endorsed by LLL, too)
Manual Pump - Medela Harmony (this was ok)
Bottles - Avent Natural
Milk Storage Bags - Lansinoh
Breast Pads - Lansinoh

Pumping
  • Talk with HR before you get back from maternity leave and clear the 'when' and 'where' of pumping. It will make your first day back easier.
  • Have something with you to help cause a let down. My pump has a recorder so I recorded the baby crying and it works. Other women bring a toy or something that smells like their baby. Looking at pictures helps too.
  • Pump multiple times a day (3 or more if you can and don't skip a session). The more your remove from your breast, the more you body makes.
  • Always travel with spare parts. At a minimum, I recommend stocking back ups of tubes, membranes, filters, and freezer bags.
  • Try different size flanges if things don't feel right and remember that your nipples may need different sizes.
  • Plan ahead to spend ahead. I'd say you should be ready to buy another pump after 6-7 months of almost daily use and the investment can get up to $200+ depending on what you use.

Bottles
  • When buying bottles, look for bottles with the fewest amount of parts. The more parts your bottle has, the more time you have to spend washing them.
  • Your baby may not take a bottle with you around... so leave in the early weeks so someone can try feeding the baby. They will need to be patient.
  • Don't ever microwave breast milk. Very bad. My son takes his milk cold or room temperature  now. Fancy bottle warms seem to take forever so do what you can to reduce reliance on warm milk.
  • Make sure whoever feeds the baby (caretakers, dad, grandparents, etc.) knows about paced bottle feeding for the breastfed baby. Babies are not good at self regulating with a bottle because it is much easier than nursing at the breast and they will over eat if you let them.
  • Prefill bottles to send to the sitter or day care provider. I fill 4 bottles with 3 oz each and sometimes a little more if I had it available.
  • Babies need 1-1.5 oz of breast milk an hour on average. You can figure out how much to leave based upon that estimate. Then leave a little back up for the caretaker's freezer if they are ok with that.
  • Find a good slow flow nipple bottle and stick to it! Large gulps from bottles that flow to fast cause gas and your baby will also eat more. After a few months, replace nipples with the same flow.
Support on your breastfeeding journey
  • Let your significant other help with bottle washing, pump washing, packing up for the next day, etc. It will make your life easier and it feels good know that they are involved in the process of feeding your baby.
  • Reach out to LLL Leaders if you need help or have questions. Most of these women struggled themselves and it feels good to help other moms get past the hurdles.
  • There are some awesome Facebook groups: Working Pumping Moms, Working Moms Who Make Breastfeeding Work, etc. Join the conversation and look at their files section for links, tips, and tricks.

If you have any other questions about nursing and working full time, don't hesitate to reach out. Thanks!

Monday, February 16, 2015

Pro Con Baby: A Look Back

A close male coworker friend of mine confided in me that he and his wife were 'starting to kind of think about maybe having a baby.' This is great! They'd make wonderful parents and I told him not to think to hard about it. If anyone logically thought about it, they wouldn't do it. It is a sacrifice. Loads of work but also incredible joy.

It is funny of me to say not to over think something as it is my nature to do just that but until you are a parent, you don't understand it. It looks hard but fun at times. Seems life changing but difficult to gauge how much. Etc. So I thought I'd share on here how we made the decision 3+ years ago to become parents.

Saturday, November 8, 2014

10 Weeks

Owen can reach for toys above him and gets really excited when he hits them. He uses his right hand more than left which leads me to believe the he may be right handed.

Owen still hates it but he is getting a little better in the car since mommy tinted her windows for him.

He is a babbling fool... which may me he takes after me although I've caught Anthony talking to himself.

Owen's been going to the sitter for two weeks and had been really snuggly at night which I love. After nursing, he'll stop, look up at me and smile.

He loves being worn and it is an easy way to put him to sleep.

Owen's wearing size six months pjs and pants because of his height. It has been hard putting away his small clothes.

He has also released that he can pee in his bath and he really seems to like that.

Monday, February 4, 2013

Baby Fever

So one of the Bennetts has baby fever and it isn't the Mrs. Oh no! He's got it bad too. In 2012, we babysat the best and cutest kids. We had Paisley (age 3) over at the house with her little brother Sawyer (age 1 or so). Paisley sweetly asked me, "Sister Bennett, where are your babies?" To which I responded, "we don't have any babies Paisley." And I am sure you could guess what follows? "Why not?" asked the very thoughtful girl. Anthony swiftly replied in a very straight forward manner, "it wouldn't be fiscally responsible right now." This just made me laugh so hard! She had no idea what he was saying.
Mr. Bennett circa my birth (I married an older man)
Anthony and Abbey 
Anthony and the preemie Andrea
Baby Dena's 1st Birthday Party! She had us all laughing!
Someday Anthony and when that day comes, you will be the best dad because you love our future kid's mom and you are so eager and excited to do a great job. You do such a good job with Thelma too and she isn't even human! :)


Monday, August 8, 2011

Nystrom/Church Wedding

I love my job as bridesmaid! Each of my friends holds a very special place in my heart and like I was there for Natalia, I was there for Melissa. I got the best job of all, getting the bride to relax, not stress but getting her to just enjoy the wedding day which I did very well. See images below.
The beautiful bride getting her nails done! I even talked her into the  DELUXE pedicure with a leg massage.
 Melissa was so calm and confident about the groom. He was great in her mind with no cause of worry or second thought. Never once did she waver about the choice she had made or the man she was set to marry.

We were practicing. ;) With the flower girl!
We had fun getting to play with the flower girl Trilby! I hope that is how you spell it. Her momma Joyce and I were bridesmaids along with Jodie. We all had fun helping Melissa get ready and seeing Joel's eyes light up from the front row when he saw her in her dress. 

We also got to see good friends from high school. Diana Nguyen's boyfriend and I bonded over the study of psychology while Brent, Jessica and I laughed at each other's jokes and all celebrated in the joy of Brian and Stephanie Dutton's little baby on the way. Aren't weddings just the greatest!?!
Melissa tossing the bouquet! I can't catch it anymore and I didn't even win the Anniversary dance... I guess 7 months of marriage doesn't hold a candle to the groom's parents at 40 years. They were sealed in the Manti Temple.
With Melissa's permission, I requested Anthony to wear something similar to our dress.
We had a long and busy weekend and my car has no AC so it was a rough ride back to Jacksonville but nevertheless, we made it home. Thelma was worn out too after we stopped on in Marianna to see Anthony's family. His older brother Ben had his girlfriend Nyka in town and we got to go down to the Mill Pond for a swim. Annie was at the pond too with her lab Tank. Watching the fearless Tank bolt into the water after tennis balls (when Tank wasn't sunning herself, of course), Thelma mustered the courage to jump in the water. Then with panic in her eyes showed Anthony how quickly she doubted her brave decision. haha.

It was quite a fun time. Now back to the grind. Did I mention that Anthony starts his new job next Monday? That's right, he's giving Short Sale Negotiations a try for Bank of America. My husband with a Film and English Degree never ceases to amaze me.