Owen Adjusting to Sister

The below are some bullet points on how Owen is handling his adjustment to staying home with mom and life with a little sister.

• The day after Halloween is not the easiest time to get a bew sibling... candy high kiddo...

• His new fav movie is Pocahontas and it is perhaps Disney's least PC movie. Ugh!

• Owen tells Amelia, "hi sweet boy (then girl when I correct him)." He likes 'booping' her nose with his finger and holding her hand. 

• Before Amelia's belly button's swelling went down, Owen was calling it 'her penis' so I had to explain that Amelia is a girl and doesn't have one... haha

• Right after she was born, Owen would ask me. "Why is she biting your nipples?" He weaned a yard and a half ago but clearly doesn't remember nursing.

Birth of Amelia Marie

We had our second home birth last week and were happily surprised to welcome a beautiful baby girl!!! All of the wives tales had been right with both my kids which you can see explained in the blog post here. But anyway... on to the birth story!

Last Pregnant pic!

He didn't care I was 1 day over my Due Date. He wanted CANDY!

At 40 weeks and 2 days, after 2.5 hours of trick or treating with my 3 year old, a great chiropractic adjustment, and a bloody show (on Halloween no less), we had a fast and furious birth on November 1, 2017. After returning from trick or treating and visiting with my mom who came over on Halloween day, I hit the hay around 11 p.m. with pressure waves that felt inconsistent but at 1:30 a.m. I wasn't able to sleep through or nap between pressure waves any more so I got up and into our big tub. Anthony joined me and let my mom know what was going on. Around 2 a.m./2:30 a.m. we reached out to a friend and the midwife to let them know the pressure waves were getting more intense and consistent. This definitely didn't feel like giving birth to Owen which I spent much of birth comparing it to.

My midwife Sharon arrived with her birth assistant Heather at around 3 a.m. and checked me but I have a rule where I don't like to know my dilation number. I later learned that at this first check, I was 3 cm dialated, 90% effaced, and +1; Sharon told mom that if I was a first time mom, she probably would have left but she could tell things were going to move quickly. Things progressed rapidly and I was kicking myself throughout labor for not making Hypnobabies practice a bigger priority because I could not stay in the zone but the recordings did help me stay more positive.

WARNING: Birth is not as dramatic as the movies

Probably around transformation, I was being loud and my mother shushed me... I snapped at her, "Don't tell me what to do!" and continued in my birthing. Poor mom just didn't want Owen to wake up but he slept through the ENTIRE thing... in the moment I didn't care if he woke up, I was doing what I had to do to get that baby out. I also may have cursed and hit the side of the tub with my fist at one point... like I said, getting that baby out. I also might have said that this was our last baby and we were done at one point too... the same birth as a Owen's 18 hours condensed into MUCH less time; it felt like things were taking forever but it was actually all happening very fast.

At around 5:50 a.m., I asked Sharon if I could push and she said, "of course, if you are feeling the urge to, then by all means. Listen to my body." So they gloved up and came to the side of the tub. Anthony is in EMT school so when I started pushing, Sharon asked if he'd like to catch our baby and he did. (Ironically enough, the November 1st lesson at school was on Obstetrics.) My mom held my hand as my midwife walked Anthony through 'catching' and I paced my pushing with my contractions. I felt like an expert pusher this time because with Owen, I was so clueless on how to push and it took about 45 minutes to get him out. That may seem dumb to most but you are using a muscle that you never have before in your first birth so it takes some learning/training.

When Anthony placed her in my arms and we saw she was A GIRL

The cord was wrapped around her neck once and Sharon unlooped it as Anthony was catching her. At 6:01 a.m., Anthony placed a baby girl up on my chest. Always the best surprise finding out what you've been carrying! She wasn't at all what I'd pictured but birth really is the ultimate best blind date.

Amelia weighed 7 lbs 2 oz and was 21 inches long and she was a great nurser from first latch on. She was so calm and peaceful and with a TON of dark hair.

When big brother woke up, we asked him if he wanted to meet his sister and he said, "no, I want Halloween candy." A perfect response from a 3 year old big brother.ther woke up, we asked him if he wanted to meet his sister and he said, "no, I want Halloween candy." A perfect response from a 3 year old big brother who has since asked a lot of questions about her.

Owen wanted to do skin-to-skin like dad.

None of our girl names worked for her and we went back to the drawing board. Owen suggested we name her Baby, Minion, or Mary Scarlett but we didn't feel those fit her either. I found Emelia as a middle name on Dickie's side of the family but then when talking to Judi was reminded that Anthony had a Great Great Aunt Amelia Landi and the Marie is my middle name (and my mom's and my grandma's and so on) but it is also found in the Italian side which is the only explanation we have for all her hair. :)

Midwife & Friend Sharon

Mom and Doula

I hope I don't forget

How Owen pronounces th as f sounds.

How he calls blankets blanklees.

How he can't say ninja turtles but says enja turtles.

How he prays for football at dinner.

How he confuses his pronouns, "pick you my up."

A light can only be turned off and a door can only be closed.

How everything with an American flag or even just an American flag are Captain America.

How perceptive he is about little things.

How he insists that shoesare the wrong feet are right if that's how he wanted to wear them.

How a red tank top, green plaid shorts,  white socks, and open toed sandals seem to make an outfit.

How if he wants water in the green cup,  he asks for "green water."

How he tells me that I have 4 babies in my belly.

How he asks if mommy or daddy is kicking when he feels the baby.

How he dances with one elbow very high in the air.

Almost 3, and I'm sure 3, will be tough but he's a good kid.

Hurricane Matthew

So we closed on our house, spent one night there and then got the road to evacuate from Hurricane Matthew. Surrounded by beautiful BIG oak trees and with no way to check on the house (I was in Fort Walton Beach and Anthony was at Baker County Firehouse), we waited out the storm and hoped for the best.

Luckily, we received very little damage and on Monday when I called Anthony to ask about power at the house, he confirmed it was on told me to head home. I came home and enjoyed that power for a few hours before the power was cut off by

Longview

It had been in the back of my mind for quite a while. Our house in Bentley Woods was small and we were going to outgrow it if we had a second kid. So when the mortgage rates were low and the equity was high we jumped in the market and found a new house. Anthony was much more cautious and hesitant which was smart of him. With a little coaxing, he got on board.

We absolutely love our new house and we only started shopping after finding another one in our ward with a pool and near Pickwick Park. That house was next to two houses on the river, too. By the time we contacted our realtor though, the house was already under contract with another buyer. We put an offer in on Longview and had it in escrow within 24 hours, so we listed our house right away.

With great staging and 14 showings in 4-5 days, we got two offers and we were able to close for full asking price. It worked out perfectly and from offer on Longview to close, it was about 60 days.

Things Toddlers Say

Owen is 2.5 and 31.5 lbs, 37.5 inches tall, and has a head circumference in the 95th percentile. Two has been an interesting age. Owen is constantly testing boundaries, asking questions,  and forming his own opinion.

Funny things he has said:
"Jesus loves all the children everywhere  in the world."

When asked what his favorite ice cream flavor is, he responded, "Black." After giggling, we were able to determine that black ice cream is chocolate.

On our cruise in January 2017, Owen began calling us by our first names. He also told me, "you're not in charge, mommy" and "spank daddy. He's a bad boy."

His prayers consist of thanking the lord for his food (even at bedtime), listing family members and friends, and then ending with, "Jesus name, amen."

Blessings
Anthony was giving me a blessing after we moved into the new house and I was sitting on the floor. Owen was there too and came up and put his little hands on top of Anthony's. It was very precious.